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	<title>Comments on: Searching for a place to call my own</title>
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		<title>By: Brooke Pannell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brooke Pannell</dc:creator>
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		<description>Hey, googled you guys to find your life at a distance page and I found your blog.  I haven&#039;t talked to you guys in a while.
The small group thing is a real issue, we struggled with the very issues you have laid out here.  Having a baby can be isolating at times, it&#039;s hard to balance it with time as a couple.  We didn&#039;t do a small group for a LONG time after having kids.  Taking the kids with you is not so much fun, you can&#039;t focus on each other and the group.  However, now we are in a small group together....we hired our next door neighbor girl to watch the kids, and we also recruited Gigi (grandma).  Eric also does a group with the men now at our house, and I just pack the kids up and go visit my mom.....which I know Kassy can&#039;t do.  But not having a small group for so long left a hole in us, and it nagged at us incessantly.
One idea may be that youth from your church could gain credits towards a youth trip by babysitting for couples on the nights of small groups.  Hope this helps.....I&#039;m going to try and call Kassy now.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, googled you guys to find your life at a distance page and I found your blog.  I haven&#8217;t talked to you guys in a while.<br />
The small group thing is a real issue, we struggled with the very issues you have laid out here.  Having a baby can be isolating at times, it&#8217;s hard to balance it with time as a couple.  We didn&#8217;t do a small group for a LONG time after having kids.  Taking the kids with you is not so much fun, you can&#8217;t focus on each other and the group.  However, now we are in a small group together&#8230;.we hired our next door neighbor girl to watch the kids, and we also recruited Gigi (grandma).  Eric also does a group with the men now at our house, and I just pack the kids up and go visit my mom&#8230;..which I know Kassy can&#8217;t do.  But not having a small group for so long left a hole in us, and it nagged at us incessantly.<br />
One idea may be that youth from your church could gain credits towards a youth trip by babysitting for couples on the nights of small groups.  Hope this helps&#8230;..I&#8217;m going to try and call Kassy now&#8230;..</p>
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